The following conditions occurring to a child in the first 36 months of their life puts them at risk:

 

 

 

 

 

 

• Unwanted Pregnancy

• Divorced families

• Pre-birth exposure to trauma, drugs or alcohol

• Neglect (not answering the baby's cries for help)

• Abuse (physical, emotional, sexual)

• Separation from primary caregiver (illness or death of mother or severe illness or hospitalization of the baby, or adoption)

• Caring for baby on timed schedule or other self-centered parenting

• Several moves or placements (foster care, failed adoptions, divorces)

• Moms with chronic depression

• Changing day cares or using providers who don't do bonding

• On-going pain such as colic, hernia or many ear infections

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• Superficially engaging & charming

• Lack of eye contact on parents terms

• Indiscriminately affectionate with strangers

• Not affectionate on Parents' terms (not cuddly)

• Destructive to self, others and material things (accident prone)

• Cruelty to animals

• Lying about the obvious (crazy lying)

• Stealing

• No impulse controls (frequently acts hyperactive)

• Learning Lags

• Lack of cause and effect thinking

• Lack of conscience

• Abnormal eating patterns

• Poor peer pressure

• Preoccupation with fire

• Preoccupation with blood and gore

• Persistent nonsense questions & chatter

• Inappropriately demanding & clingy

• Abnormal speech patterns

• Triangulation of adults

• False allegations of abuse

• Presumption entitlement issues

• Parents appear hostile and angry

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